Small talk BIG Talk

In our world today, the Big talkers are considered to be the ones on Tech space, the ones that say what's going to be in the society. Whereas small talkers are the ones that are just there.

But when we talk about 'small talk' and 'Big talk' in quote, what do we really mean?

Well, there are different sides to this, we could choose to say small talks are casual talks like the 'How are you' and the 'what are your favorite dishes'

Then we can also say small talks are negative talks that shouldn't be condoned, Yea, so many opinions on small talk

But whats the focus here, let me say this..

Conversations that don't leave you feeling happy, or conversations that make you want to go beyond yourself to please others, unwholesome chit chats that leave you dirty and worse off, are 'small talks'

I call them small talks because they do less or no positive work in you. Take for instance, as a 12 year old, I noticed about that age that my mates back then would discuss on things that provoke me on the inside, I got to understand that at the teenage years of our lives, it's more pressing to join the trend than lay back.

Even now, a lot of adults still fall into this loophole, our modernized world have gotten the better part of many.

Big talkers dwell more on the prospects, what's the way forward, how can I achieve this, how can we help the society...

So, we are in a constant division of where we truly belong.. Why? Because many drop their purpose for trivial talks that do more harm than good.

I would crack up with a tight laugh or smile, my cheeks hurting at silly jokes that made my stomach churn, Yea, I was that kid.. Then in a company of reasonable conversation, I would feel my joy sipping from within, I just felt alive!

So, I have passed the ball to you, what is your decision now, to being better and having more wholesome conversations.. Leave a comment and I'd reply as soon as possible..

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