Frances Eby

  In our world today, the Big talkers are considered to be the ones on Tech space, the ones that say what's going to be in the society. Whereas small talkers are the ones that are just there.  But when we talk about 'small talk' and 'Big talk' in quote, what do we really mean?  Well, there are different sides to this, we could choose to say small talks are casual talks like the 'How are you' and the 'what are your favorite dishes' Then we can also say small talks are negative talks that shouldn't be condoned, Yea, so many opinions on small talk  But whats the focus here, let me say this..  Conversations that don't leave you feeling happy, or conversations that make you want to go beyond yourself to please others, unwholesome chit chats that leave you dirty and worse off, are 'small talks' I call them small talks because they do less or no positive work in you. Take for instance, as a 12 year old, I noticed about that age that my mates...